My Grandparents

Last week at this time I was with family in Virginia. We were gathered to honor and remember the life of my dad's father and my "Grandpabud." 

Grandpabud was one of the healthiest, vibrant, full of life people I knew- at 81 years old!! The 2 weeks following his unexpected stroke, and before his passing, our family joined together to send emails of memories and "Grandpabud-isms" to comfort each other across the country. While these brought many tears to my eyes, they also served to confirm what my cousin Megan wrote- "Most people aren't lucky enough to KNOW someone like Grandpabud, and we get to call him our grandfather."

I have been beyond blessed to have had a grandfather like Grandpabud, and to have a grandmother like my Grammie.  Being around them has always felt like a big hug. Their genuine interest in the lives of whomever they meet, and their generous hearts willing and wanting to make everyone feel comfortable and at home are amazing. While I know they did this for everyone- all of us grandkids felt it in a way that truly made us feel unique and special. Now that's something to strive for.

I think of my life before 80 and I realize that I have about 50 years to go... I don't know about you, but sometimes I get so caught up in my dreams and desires and questioning why I don't have them now- when, really, God is so aware and so perfect in His big picture timing. 

The road that I am on is to be traveled with joy- knowing that God has abundantly blessed me- through situations that "seem right" to me, and also by strengthening me through trials and developing my character through challenges. My Grammie and Grandpabud have been respected throughout their lives- but I have no doubt that they grew in their character as life and circumstances changed around them. Through it all they remained dedicated to serving God and their family- and the legacy that that leaves behind is something that can't have come without heartache and hard times among the blessings.

I guess I write this today thankful for today; thankful for my grandparents and others in my life, thankful for the journey I am on, and the road ahead. Where it goes? I don't know- but I do hope and pray that Lord-willing if I keep my priorities in line- looking inward to God for my strength and purpose, yet looking outward to see how He wants to use me; I can lead a life for this next 50 years that resembles the heart, generosity, love, and servitude of my grandparents.

I will miss you Grandpabud. My love to you Grammie.